OK, i have received a comment into my personal E-mail - I hope that the coming comments will be sent directly through the blog to enrich its content-my dear freind Abolshhosh argued that we are have agreat contribution to our problems, because we think that marriage needs money, he stated another factor or requirements, he said:"Dear Mohd,

The abundance of spinsters that you mentioned it's because of people like you believe in the ghost of money, I do agree marriage needs money but that doesn't mean if

you are not rich you won't get married you should work and figure out the way to overcome this situation, money is not an obstruction unless you believe.

I think the most important issue is timing, when you are ready to get marriage emotionally, psychologically, mentality, professionally and of course financially,

My friend don't ever never think step in unless you are homeostatic and reached the right state of mind.